In addition to everything you said, another reason it is self-defeating to identify as a victim is because people who aren't of that mentality find those who are tiresome and irksome and will avoid them.
Years ago I was given a little book titled "As a Man Thinketh" by James Allen. Nicely reiterates your argument. Ha ha, that title would never fly today!
6 Reasons It’s Always a Mistake to Think of Yourself as a Victim
In addition to everything you said, another reason it is self-defeating to identify as a victim is because people who aren't of that mentality find those who are tiresome and irksome and will avoid them.
Years ago I was given a little book titled "As a Man Thinketh" by James Allen. Nicely reiterates your argument. Ha ha, that title would never fly today!