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tps's avatar

Ah, there is a more likely reason: She is a lesbian. She decided along the way she likes women, a lot more than men, and her vibrator is for her new girlfriend. I had a friend from college and this happened to him almost exactly the same way. If I was a betting man, this is where my money goes. You do not turn asexual at 25 after having a good vigorous sex left beforehand. She has safety and maybe other perks with him, but is getting her jollies from munching carpet elsewhere. He should ask her about it, and if so, enjoy the three of them for a few fun evenings to make up for lost time, and then throw her the hell out.

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Victoria's avatar

The problem -- aside from the bitch he wasted half a decade on -- is he is emotionally weak and maybe low in testosterone. He should dump her ass, not ask a stranger for advice. He should have given her a friendly ultimatum years ago: we fix our sex problem pronto or there is no us.

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